One of the things that at times freaks me out about having children is figuring out how to raise them. It is enough mental prep just to get ready for labor and the coming of a child, and when you add diapers, feedings, and lack of sleep, that is about all my brain can handle. But beyond helping our child grow physically, we want them to develop socially, morally, and spiritually. How do we do that? When I start to really freak out, I remember that billions of other people have gone through this, and most of their kids turned out fine.
I wonder what it was like for Joseph and Mary. They had a child, now what? How do you raise the Son of God, besides following the lead of angels? Was that how it would be for the whole child raising experience? Apparently not. After the supernatural experiences throughout the pregnancy and birth of Jesus, Joseph and Mary’s life settled into the normal. Now how were they supposed to raise the Son of God? Just like they would raise any other child, by following God’s word. That must have been on their mind as they returned to Israel.
“When the time of their purification according to the Law of Moses had been completed, Joseph and Mary took him to Jerusalem to present him to the Lord (as it is written in the Law of the Lord, ‘Every firstborn male is to be consecrated to the Lord’ ), and to offer a sacrifice in keeping with what is said in the Law of the Lord: ‘a pair of doves or two young pigeons.’”
“Now there was a man in Jerusalem called Simeon, who was righteous and devout. He was waiting for the consolation of Israel, and the Holy Spirit was upon him. It had been revealed to him by the Holy Spirit that he would not die before he had seen the Lord’s Christ. Moved by the Spirit, he went into the temple courts. When the parents brought in the child Jesus to do for him what the custom of the Law required, Simeon took him in his arms and praised God, saying: ‘Sovereign Lord, as you have promised, you now dismiss your servant in peace. For my eyes have seen your salvation, which you have prepared in the sight of all people, a light for revelation to the Gentiles and for glory to your people Israel.’”
“The child’s father and mother marveled at what was said about him. Then Simeon blessed them and said to Mary, his mother: ‘This child is destined to cause the falling and rising of many in Israel, and to be a sign that will be spoken against, so that the thoughts of many hearts will be revealed. And a sword will pierce your own soul too’” (Luke 2:22-35, NIV).
Imagine the reaction of Joseph and Mary. Here they were just doing the normal purification rituals, probably not expecting anything to happen, when out of nowhere Simeon picks up their child and says some amazing things! On one hand they were used to surprises, but on the other hand I don’t think they ever got tired of such powerful statements about their Son. How encouraging it must have been to hear a stranger talk about Jesus as “God’s salvation” and “a light” for the Gentiles and Israel. Another confirmation of all that God had already told them. Another bolstering of their faith. But as they “marveled” at this and Simeon blessed them, he said something that must have muddled their marveling. Simeon’s words to Mary weren’t pretty words of peace and tranquility. He basically told her that Jesus would cause divisions, be spoken against, and expose people for who they really were, and that Mary would be pained by the experience. What do you do with that?
I can’t imagine being at the hospital amidst the joy of the delivery of our baby, and then having another nurse who was on duty somewhere in the hospital walk in, pick up our child, and say the kinds of things Simeon said.
How do you respond to words like this? How would I take the fact that my child would cause divisions and separation and even pain? How would Joseph and Mary balance that with all the joy they were experiencing? I guess if they believed the first words, then they needed to believe the second words, too. They must have understood by now that following God wasn’t easy, that it didn’t simplify their life or take away all the problems. They had come to know through experience that bearing the Messiah in the world actually made life more complicated, made relationships more complicated, and made the future less certain. Far from being safe and easy, being the Christ-bearers was dangerous and adventurous.
Do we understand that this is still true today? Do we get the full message about what it means for a Messiah to come? The Jews of Jesus day were looking for a political Messiah to come and take their problems away. But here at the temple, Simeon was letting people know that God’s Messiah was much different. He was there to fix their real problems, but not like people were expecting. Jesus had come to shine light on them and provide the path to true redemption. And this path was not an easy road. What kind of Messiah are we looking for? Do we look to Jesus just to make our lives nice and safe, so we can go on with them on our plans and our own strength? Do we look to Jesus as convenient and helpful, maybe even as a nice little trophy in our display case of life? That kind of a Jesus won’t have much impact on how we live or relate with other people. Because that kind of Jesus isn’t the real thing.
Or do we grasp the full Messiah? Regardless of what we were thinking when we first accepted Him into our lives, now, as maturing Christ-bearers, do we get that following Christ will never stop rocking our world? Are we willing to have our plans changed and our experiences be sometimes less than rosy, knowing that intense joy and intense pain are both part of the package of following Him? Far from being safe and easy, being the Christ-bearers was dangerous and adventurous. Yet Joseph and Mary had full trust in God, in His sovereignty and provision, and were able to travel the adventure with a humble confidence and an openness to whatever God would do. As we begin the new year, they bid us to do the same.